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livictori | So my 37th birthday is Monday and so far there are 18 men on the hit list. I promised myself not to get to 20 before I get married. I've got zero prospects and I'm not a random guy kind of girl. Will I ever have sex again? ------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising. |
starmoon | quote: Originally posted by livictori: So my 37th birthday is Monday and so far there are 18 men on the hit list. I promised myself not to get to 20 before I get married. I've got zero prospects and I'm not a random guy kind of girl. Will I ever have sex again?
I'm sure you will, lol |
poochycat | Hi livictori I don't think I have ever done a reading for you so here goes... 2 of wands, page of wands, queen of pentacles, lovers reversed (popped out) I'm guessing that you are not currently in a relationship? If you are looking then someone whom you have a lot in common with may be in the wings for you. You might already know this man. The lovers even reversed is a strong omen concerning relationships. It shows that yes someone is coming into your life. The page of wands confirms that. The queen of pentacles. When I close my eyes I see a dark haired/eyed beauty. I'm sure it's you and men are attracted to you. This cards points to strategies on your part as ways to attract a man. (sex) Sorry to be blunt. DON'T short change yourself. You have many feminine and positive attributes about yourself. Libra rising usually points to someone who is very attractive. Sex is a beautiful god-given gift that shouldn't be abused. The right man will come along and it see it happening soon. Poochy |
livictori | quote: Originally posted by poochycat: Hi livictoriI don't think I have ever done a reading for you so here goes... 2 of wands, page of wands, queen of pentacles, lovers reversed (popped out) I'm guessing that you are not currently in a relationship? If you are looking then someone whom you have a lot in common with may be in the wings for you. You might already know this man. The lovers even reversed is a strong omen concerning relationships. It shows that yes someone is coming into your life. The page of wands confirms that. The queen of pentacles. When I close my eyes I see a dark haired/eyed beauty. I'm sure it's you and men are attracted to you. This cards points to strategies on your part as ways to attract a man. (sex) Sorry to be blunt. DON'T short change yourself. You have many feminine and positive attributes about yourself. Libra rising usually points to someone who is very attractive. Sex is a beautiful god-given gift that shouldn't be abused. The right man will come along and it see it happening soon. Poochy
Thanks!! Yes, I've got really big dark hair and large dark eyes. I'm very curvaceous, so men are usually attracted to either my boob, waist or hips. I think I would only do this w/one person I already know. The last guy I was seeing who just disappear for no reason. I haven't spoken to him in months but it never felt finished. Thanks for the reading. I'll keep you posted. Not about the sex thing but the reading lol. Again, I appreciate your time
------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising. |
livictori | quote: Originally posted by starmoon: I'm sure you will, lol
I hope so too. I know it's funny |
Twitterbird05 | also: maybe don't worry about your "number" so much? it's just a number. |
pocaloca | quote: Originally posted by Twitterbird05: also: maybe don't worry about your "number" so much? it's just a number.
I totally agree! To hell with numbers and expectations..Live your life and eventually something worth sticking with would pop up |
livictori | quote: Originally posted by poochycat: Hi livictoriI don't think I have ever done a reading for you so here goes... 2 of wands, page of wands, queen of pentacles, lovers reversed (popped out) I'm guessing that you are not currently in a relationship? If you are looking then someone whom you have a lot in common with may be in the wings for you. You might already know this man. The lovers even reversed is a strong omen concerning relationships. It shows that yes someone is coming into your life. The page of wands confirms that. The queen of pentacles. When I close my eyes I see a dark haired/eyed beauty. I'm sure it's you and men are attracted to you. This cards points to strategies on your part as ways to attract a man. (sex) Sorry to be blunt. DON'T short change yourself. You have many feminine and positive attributes about yourself. Libra rising usually points to someone who is very attractive. Sex is a beautiful god-given gift that shouldn't be abused. The right man will come along and it see it happening soon. Poochy
UPDATE: Today is my birthday and I have to say how your reading saved me. This weekend I was celebrating my birthday with girlfriend. At dinner we met some guys who seemed nice. They joined us but eventually we separated. I have one of them my number and exchanged texts all night. At the end of the night I was on my way home when he wanted to meet up for breakfast. After breakfast he asked if I wanted to come back to take a nap before I drove home. I felt comfortable but told him I was not interested in sex. He didn't seem disrespectful or bothered so I went. We got in, and we both fell asleep fully clothed but were awaken by a knock on the hotel door. And it was the police. Apparently while we were apart he met another woman and had sex but according to the officer consent was a question. When you said not to short change myself, I really took it in. I never had a one night stand and I thought about giving myself a birthday gift but I remembered your words. Even if I was safe physically, I probably wasn't safe emotionally from a man who would have sex with someone and try to romance me at the same time. THANK YOU
------------------ Pisces Sun, Leo Moon, Libra Rising. |
littlecloud | Wow! That is some fudged up **** right there. |
poochycat | OH LIVICTORI! I am so happy that you are o.k.!! You made my day with your update. Don't worry a man WORTHY of you will come along and you gave yourself the best birthday present ever. Respect. HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND LOTS OF HUGS!! Poochy |
poochycat | Hi I'm back just thought I would some advice from a very wise woman. (my mom) LOL that she gave to me re men and wanting to know if they really care for you. Hold off on the sex for as long as possible. Just tell them you like to take it slow with men. If they take off then they weren't worth it. If they are still with you after say a few months (you can do it) ha, ha then he's a keeper. poochy |
livictori | Your mom is right!! I realize that while 18 seems low, it maybe that I move too fast and end up in relationships that I end up running from. I think this is what I need to work on. My south node in aries in the 7th house with my Venus & chiron. Especially with my nn in libra which we will be experiencing until November of next year. Which is longer than I want to wait but between this and my experience with a guy last month, who I also didn't sleep with but I would have been tricked by before. |
LoadedPistil | quote: Originally posted by Twitterbird05: also: maybe don't worry about your "number" so much? it's just a number.
Hmmm... I'm almost 30 and my number is about 1/3 of hers. Freaks me out to get to 10 REALLY wish I didn't care so much and everything about my natal chart says I'm a ***** , but I'm not |
poochycat | Oh! loadedpistil had to reply. It's not a conquest to get to a certain number sweetie. It really is true that if you hold out you will find a man that cares about YOU. AND you are not whatever you think your chart says! You are a beautiful woman that a man should value. |
livictori | quote: Originally posted by poochycat: Hi livictoriI don't think I have ever done a reading for you so here goes... 2 of wands, page of wands, queen of pentacles, lovers reversed (popped out) I'm guessing that you are not currently in a relationship? If you are looking then someone whom you have a lot in common with may be in the wings for you. You might already know this man. The lovers even reversed is a strong omen concerning relationships. It shows that yes someone is coming into your life. The page of wands confirms that. The queen of pentacles. When I close my eyes I see a dark haired/eyed beauty. I'm sure it's you and men are attracted to you. This cards points to strategies on your part as ways to attract a man. (sex) Sorry to be blunt. DON'T short change yourself. You have many feminine and positive attributes about yourself. Libra rising usually points to someone who is very attractive. Sex is a beautiful god-given gift that shouldn't be abused. The right man will come along and it see it happening soon. Poochy
UPDATE: So the lovers reversed which just popped out I understand as a man I loved who I was pining for who out of nowhere popped back in. The funnny thing about you saying not to short change myself is that I waiting it out. I had opportunities but never bartered with men I did not see going the distance. He and I have spoken and even spent the day together not doing it {we took care of that last week} but it made remember why I love him. I really hope things are better this time and that I am able to be more open and expressive with him in a loving way
------------------ ♓️Pisces Sun, ♌️Leo Moon, ♎️Libra Rising, ♈️Aries Venus |
LoadedPistil | quote: Originally posted by poochycat: Oh! loadedpistil had to reply. It's not a conquest to get to a certain number sweetie. It really is true that if you hold out you will find a man that cares about YOU. AND you are not whatever you think your chart says! You are a beautiful woman that a man should value.
Awww poochy poo!!! :-* ------------------ Leo ♌️ Sun Scorpio ♏ Moon Cancer ♋ Rising Svātī Nakshatra |
poochycat | Ah livictori You made me sooo happy to read your reply that you bought tears to my eyes. Good luck to you honey you deserve to be happy. Loadedpistil - Poochypoo? oh you are a funny girl LOL! |